I sometimes think myself out of social situations before even giving them a chance to play out. Imagining how it will go I skip to the part where I just don’t. Do you ever do that too or is it just me?
The phrase “social situation” always reminds me of this episode of The IT Crowd: Watch Video on YouTube
Why is it that making and being friends is so much easier when you’re a kid? Oh, you like that too? Best friends! So organic.
Now everyone’s so busy. Getting together has to be scheduled and probably rescheduled at least once. Friend time has to be planned around nap times and adult obligations. It’s not like someone just happens to be sitting beside you in class or at lunch. I like things to happen organically. Go with the flow and hey, friends!
Guess you just have to find new ways of doing things in new phases of life. Easier said than done.
When I think of reaching out to new friends, for instance, I can easily think myself into awkward situations where I can’t seem to express myself, fumble it all up, and they think I’m nutty. Ever happen to you?
I also feel like if someone wants to hang with me they’ll ask. Maybe they feel the same way, so we just never get together. How silly would THAT be?
There are wonderful surprises when I stop myself from overthinking things and just reach out. New friendships to start and to grow. It really is so much better to try than to regret not ever branching out. I even find that, in the actual moment, I often feel the opposite of awkward.
Part of me felt like I needed to figure out who I’ve become since moving 1000 miles from home, just year prior to becoming a mother, before making new friends. But I just have to just be who I am now and things will fall into place. Besides, a good conversation can help you understand more of who you are.
So invite that mom and her little one over for a playdate! Meet them at the park! Maybe even go to the party! You just might be glad you did.
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So the more I read, the more I’m convinced we’re the same person. Haha. Love this.
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